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TwoBoyfriends wrote: I met this guy a few months back who is really cute and loves me a lot. That is great, except that I have a boyfriend that I love a lot too. I can't choose between them. My boyfriend just found out about this new guy and is not happy, but I can't stop seeing him. Can I keep them both?
Dr. Gay's Answer: Can I keep them both? First of all, people are not properties, they are human beings. On the other hand if your first boyfriend is okay with you having a second one I can't see the problem.
I got thinking tough that maybe your current boyfriend is not very happy with the situation. In Thailand, a country in the South Asia region, having multiple partners is a common practice and heavily integrated into the social structure of that country. There, it is almost expected to have a mistress or Miamoo (as they call it).
If you and your partners all consent to this and everybody is happy I can't see that this is a problem, however if there is a slightest hint of unhappiness with either of your partners you must take action and decide witch, if any, you would like to 'keep' as you so elegantly put it.
Dr. Gay
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