I’m 19 year old gay man writing to you from Virginia, US. I’ve been enlisted in the military now for three months and I’ve noticed a lot of gay sex going around everywhere in the night time. However, during the day all the guys talk about is pussy and how they are going to get their hands on the next time they get off base. What I’m trying to understand is why do these men have sex together all the time if they really are not gay? I know you’re going to ask so I’ll admit, yes I’ve had sex with a few of my bunk mates and it has been wonderful – its everything and more I thought the Army would be.
Chris
Dear Chris, Thank you for your letter. I’m not sure how to answer this, maybe they are gay but under social pressure to hide it in order to survive (as they might think). Other research, especially on rats suggests that when you put too many of the same gender together they in fact start having sex with their own gender, no matter their original sexual preference. This might be the case with humans as well, but since I’m no scientist I can only speculate. I have similar experiences from the Army as you describe, it was hot wet sex almost 24 hrs a day and it didn’t stop there, we once held an underwear party at our bunker but it ended up being the biggest orgy I have ever participated in. You’re going to have a great time, just be careful not to get yourself exposed, remember the “Don’t tell” policy the government has instructed the military to uphold. |