Welcome to my advice column. I'm Dr. Alex, your host for the Dr. Gay segment on GXR. Here I will post my advices to e-mails sent in by our readers and from time to time write about my own thoughts about our fantastic lifestyle we are so lucky to have been born with. So, don’t hesitate, how stupid your problem is, I'm here to help so click the link below to send me your problems, whatever they may be, and we'll work together to solve them.
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Dr. Gay: Scammed in Brazil |
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Dear Alex, I’ve been a frequent visitor to the brothels in Brazil and I was there just last month before the world cup took the country by storm. I fell in love with this boy, Romero. He was just so cute and he really wanted to make me feel good and basically did everything for me. The sex was like a ride in heaven and spending time with him made me higher than ecstasy. Shortly before I left I told him that I would be back in about six months because I had to go back and attend to my business. Then he changed. He started to ask me for money, for this and that all the time. He even started charging me for sex, in advance… it made me feel bad as I thought we were a couple after such a long time together without any money being exchanged. Anyway, he rode my wallet and my love for him made me pay him more than $500 pr. night for the last few times we were together. I didn’t understand it but after I came home to New York I realized that I just been had by a scammer. But the sad truth is that I am still in love with this sweet innocent gay boy in Brazil.
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Muscle Shirts Fetish |
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I am 48 and have been fascinated for the past two years by men in muscle shirts. Is this common at my age?
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Addicted to porn |
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 I am a 31 year old black African medical practitioner who at the moment, is in the UK and who despite my age and profession do not have a grip on my life. Firstly, about my career, in the past three years, I have failed almost every postgraduate exam I have taken. I used to have a very impressive academic records but it all seem to have gone down the drain.
I have had to battle with an on and off depression partly because of my academics that has taken a plunge, clash of my sexuality with my religious beliefs(I keep thinking it's my sexuality that's responsible for things not working out positively for me and loss of my dad in 1999).
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Being satisfied sexually |
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 I am in a relationship and have been for the past five years. I’m very much in love with my partner and we do everything together, as a couple. In the past year or so I’ve gotten so bored with our sex, I hate our sex, it’s so vanilla and he always wants the same thing, for me to fuck him in the ass. Lately I’ve been dreaming of hot sexual fantasies where he’d fuck me in the ass and I’d lick his body all over and make love to him in the strangest of places. I’m scared to bring this subject up because I am very much in love and I don’t want to sacrifice this relationship with my partner, even though the sex sucks. I guess my question is, what should I do?
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Gay sex in the Army |
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 I’m 19 year old gay man writing to you from Virginia, US. I’ve been enlisted in the military now for three months and I’ve noticed a lot of gay sex going around everywhere in the night time. However, during the day all the guys talk about is pussy and how they are going to get their hands on the next time they get off base. What I’m trying to understand is why do these men have sex together all the time if they really are not gay? I know you’re going to ask so I’ll admit, yes I’ve had sex with a few of my bunk mates and it has been wonderful – its everything and more I thought the Army would be.
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A male from India writes Dr. Gay |
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Dear Dr. Gay
I am a gay man from India. My problem is that in this vast world I feel very lonely and sad that I don't have a special someone who I can have emotional and passionate relationship with. I really want to have sex with my future gay partner and even marry him if that is an option... So how do I get about meeting an English man and tell him my interest in him?
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I want to cheat on my wife |
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I am a straight man who has had experiences years ago with a couple of men and now I have a bad urge to have a discreet encounter with a man without having my wife finding out. Since I do remember, sex with men was not that bad at all. What should I do?
Jeff
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I want to try oral sex |
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Dear Dr. Gay,
Hi, I have been seeing a guy for three months now, we have never had sex which we are ok with for now, but we both want to try oral sex. The only thing is that we are both not sure how safe it is, I am really looking forward to trying it. Can you give us any advice on this?
Marc from UK.
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School boy love |
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Dear Dr. Gay
I work at my school. A student is 18 years old. He is in his senior year. He wanted to have some sexual fun out of the school area. Now is this illegal. Or it doesn't really matter since he is 18 and is an Adult. Will I get in trouble for having sexual relationship with him? Since he's 18 and I'm 19 it really doesn't matter? Please help
Yours,
John
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A little something about Alex |
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Over the past few months we have shared a great deal together, I know so much about you (my readers at GXR) but you know virtually nothing about me. Therefore, this week, I decided not to respond to a letter but to tell you a little bit about myself.
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My boyfriend is in the porn business |
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Dear Dr. Gay,
I am an 18 year old guy from Switzerland and I just got my first boyfriend last month. He is very kind but my friends tell me he is too old for me. He is 35 years old. His job is pornography and last week I went with him to the set to watch him film a scene in a new film his company is working on. It was very embarrassing and I saw a completely different side of him than I see in our private life. He was aggressive, talked down to the actors and was so rude… I was so upset that I walked off the set and haven’t called him since then. I am wondering if I was over reacting but I just can’t understand why he has to be so rude to those people, and I am especially surprised because in our relationship he has never shown any of these characteristics. Dear Alex, what is your comment on this, am I just a stupid 18 year old?
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I'm approaching 40 and want to have a younger boyfriend |
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Dear Dr. Gay,
I have been with my boyfriend now for 13 years. We started going out when we where 25 and now that we are both approaching 40 I have been looking at him differently. We are of course getting older but my problem is that I love him very much but I don’t fancy him at all, he is getting old and does not look sexy like he did when we first met. I have been thinking about ending our relationship because I really want to go for younger guys that appeal more to me sexually. However, I have a problem since I love him so much and we have a great life together, except for the sex part and I know breaking up with him will hurt a lot for the both of us.
Yours truly,
Confused
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A dear friend of mine has HIV |
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Chas wrote: I have someone in my life that I love dearly... like a son, who has HIV. I'm trying to keep up to date on all the experimental programs that hospitals and labs might have in progress because he wants to know about them so he can sign up for them. What is new and what is on the horizon?
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My boyfriend went abroad with another man |
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John wrote: I just found out that my boyfriend went abroad to see another man. He told me he went with his family, but when his mother called me to get news of her son I found out that he did not go with them. He still has not returned back but is due back in a week. What should I do? Should i dump him right there or should I give him another chance?
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I have two boyfriends |
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TwoBoyfriends wrote: I met this guy a few months back who is really cute and loves me a lot. That is great, except that I have a boyfriend that I love a lot too. I can't choose between them. My boyfriend just found out about this new guy and is not happy, but I can't stop seeing him. Can I keep them both?
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